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Road Trip Out West

Day One – Monday, May 10, 2010 – Louisville, Kentucky to Miami, Oklahoma

I kept a journal when Kemal and I made a road trip out West with my parents, and I’d like to share it with you.

We made a lot of photos, and Kemal also made a few short videos, so you can see some of the interesting and beautiful places we saw along the way.

Each page corresponds to each day of our vacation. In case you want to go directly to a certain day so you can see pictures of a specific place or event, here’s a quick guide before the story begins.

  • Page 1: Louisville, Kentucky to Miami, Oklahoma
  • Page 2: Miami, Oklahoma to Albuquerque, New Mexico

  • Page 3: Albuquerque, New Mexico to Grand Canyon Village, Arizona – On this day we visited the Very Large Array (VLA) at the National Radio Astronomy Observatory (NRAO) and the Grand Canyon.
  • Page 4: Grand Canyon Village, Arizona to Fresno, California – On this day we visited the Grand Canyon and reunited with my uncle Ronald (my father’s brother) and aunt Mary.
  • Page 5: Fresno, California to San Francisco, California – On this day we visited Yosemite National Park.
  • Page 6: San Francisco, California – The highlight of this day was Mom’s high school reunion.
  • Page 7: San Francisco, California – Some of the places we visited on this day included the Pacific Ocean, the Golden Gate Bridge, and Muir Woods.
  • Page 8: San Francisco, California – Highlights of this day were Fisherman’s Wharf and Chinatown.
  • Page 9: San Francisco, California to Eugene, Oregon – On this day we stopped at Treasure Island and reunited with my Uncle Bobby (my mother’s brother) and Aunt Linda.
  • Page 10: Eugene, Oregon to Coeur d’Alene, Idaho – The highlight of this day was the drive along the Columbia River Gorge.
  • Page 11: Coeur d’ Alene, Idaho to West Yellowstone Montana and Yellowstone National Park, Wyoming. The highlights of this trip included seeing buffalo at Yellowstone and seeing Old Faithful erupt.
  • Page 12: West Yellowstone, Montana to Rawlins, Wyoming
  • Page 13: Rawlins, Wyoming to Lincoln, Nebraska
  • Page 14: Lincoln, Nebraska to Louisville, KY

Our story begins with Mom and Dad and inviting me and Kemal to go on a road trip out West with them. The purpose of the trip was so Mom could attend her high school reunion in San Francisco, California. The rest of the trip was decided upon based on what we had time to see and do before the reunion, as well as what we had time to see before Kemal and I had to be back to work.

There were so many places we could have gone and so many places we wanted to see, but time was limited. So Dad asked all of us for input to find out the places we were most interested in visiting. Then he calculated how many miles we’d have to drive each day to reach our destination, as well as determined about how much time we’d be able to spend at a given location.

He did a great job figuring it all out, and armed with maps of every state we planned to drive through, a U.S. atlas, a GPS, and a Trip-Tik from AAA, we set out on the road, eager to see the sights, as well as friends and loved ones we hadn’t seen in many years.

The road trip “warriors” (me, Kemal, Mom, and Dad) left Louisville around 8 a.m. the day after Mother’s Day. Unfortunately, I was just way to sleepy to even try to take a family picture of us the first day of our vacation, but here’s a photo that a kind tourist took of us “warriors” several days later in Yosemite. (Me and Kemal are the couple on the right while my parents are on the left.)

We were in good spirits when we left Louisville, but right around the time we crossed over to the Illinois state line from Indiana, I had an awful realization. I remembered there were smoked fishies in our garbage can. I had wanted to take the trash out before we left…was planning on it…so I thought nothing about putting the fish in the trash. I asked Kemal if he would grab the trash on our way out. He said just to leave it because it wasn’t full and only had a few papers in it. I replied that I’d like to go ahead and take it on out, but he said not to worry about it…to just leave it.

I had already forgotten that I had put those smoked fish in the garbage. If I had remembered, I would have insisted on getting rid of the trash before we left. It doesn’t help that I’m getting more and more forgetful the older I get, and that, in combination with lack of sleep the night before, were the two reasons why I forgot about those stupid fish needing to be taken out of the house. *sigh*

I had made this huge, detailed list for that very reason. I wanted to make sure that I didn’t walk out the door in my half-sleepy state, forgetting simple things like my glasses, keys, purse, etc. (Yes, I had those items on my list believe it or not!)

Despite my efforts, I still failed. Darn those smoked fish!!!

They would have been just fine in the refrigerator. Why did I have to go and put them in the trash anyway? Why? No matter how much soul-searching I did, I couldn’t answer that question. It wasn’t necessary at all, and I made a stupid mistake for which I was sure we’d all pay when we got back home to our hot apartment which would stink like rotting fish! I could imagine how the stench would be unbearable!

Fourteen to sixteen days is a long time, and those fish would just get stinkier and stinkier and fouler and fouler, as every day went by. Every day they’d rot a little more, and every day, more and more creepy crawlies would be exploring the realms of our garbage can. But what if they got out? *shivers*

I knew that hoping wouldn’t help because no matter how much I hoped those dreaded fish wouldn’t rot and stink, well…they simply would. There was no way around it, and me hoping wouldn’t change anything. Still, I kept hoping that any maggots or other such nasty, disgusting, skin-crawling creatures wouldn’t make it out of the tight lid that was on our garbage can. The thought they might get out was making me queasy and sick to my stomach. Never, ever will I eat smoked fish again! They’ll always make me not only think of maggots, but also make me think of my failure to make sure that every last detail was taken care of before out trip.

One good thing came out of this fishy situation. I learned that first and foremost, always take the trash out before leaving leaving on a trip. And just in case you might forget to take the trash out, never ever, put food in the trash before going on a road trip; leave the food in the fridge. And most importantly, always make a copy of your house key and give it to a friend or family member you trust. That way…just in case…they can take care of any stinkin’ fish that might be lurking in the garbage.

Fortunately for me, despite my lack of sleep the night before, I came up with an idea. During a pee break at a rest stop, a thought occurred to me, but before I tell you about my idea, let me show you a picture that Kemal took of me just minutes before my potential brilliant solution. You can see how deep in thought I am. I guess that deep thinking did some good! :)

I remembered how much I love the apartment complex where we live and how helpful all the staff has always been to us. It occurred to me that a staff member from our apartment complex might be willing to help us out, so I called back home to Louisville. To my great relief, Mary, a really sweet lady and life saver, offered to take out our trash and then lock up our apartment after I told her what had happened. Bless her soul! I can tell you I definitely breathed a huge sigh of relief when she told me she’d take care of our garbage! Her taking care of those fish meant that I could enjoy not only the rest of my day, but also the rest of my vacation! Mary is quite a gem, and when we got back from vacation, we gave her a card and some flowers to show our appreciation.

Anyway, once the stinky-fish crisis was averted, we enjoyed seeing St. Louis.

But then we faced another crisis in Missouri and Oklahoma…thunderstorms and tornado outbreaks.

Now, while I’m a big scare-dee-cat during this kind of weather, Kemal was hoping to see a funnel cloud as we passed through Missouri. One of his favorite movies is “Twister,” and he’s always had this desire to see a funnel cloud in real life and not just on the big screen. He didn’t get his wish though, thank goodness!

We drove through Missouri and continued on to Miami, Oklahoma without incident. The winds, however, were quite strong and rocked the Suburban while we were on the road, but we got there safely. Dad was thinking about boogieing on down the road a bit more, but he decided not to because the sky looked dark and menacing and also because he wanted me and Kemal to get some rest. He knew we didn’t get much sleep the night before because we were working late, and we were also switching our sleep cycles and were exhausted. (We normally sleep during the day but were switching to sleeping at night while we were on vacation.)

It’s a good thing Dad made that decision to stop in Miami because deadly tornadoes were outbreaking in Oklahoma right in the direction we would have been heading. In fact, we learned that the interstate was closed in the direction we were heading. Apparently several semi-trucks and cars were overturned, and I believe there were utility lines down in the road. Thank goodness we didn’t continue driving down the road or else we’d have gotten in all that mess.

The clerk at our hotel said the tornadoes were were headed our way though, and she was quite worried, saying that the last tornado that came through the area completely wiped out a nearby town. Our room, she said, was next to the conference room, which is where she told us to go if we heard sirens or got a knock on our door. We also tracked the storm by watching the local television station, and here’s a picture of Dad doing just that:

Just as I snapped this picture, a breaking weather report came on the television at the hotel. After watching the updated news, Kemal went outside to make a video of the strong winds while enjoying his coffee and a cigarette. :)

There wasn’t much light outside so keep that in mind when you watch the video:

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Fortunately, the tornadoes missed Miami, but the damage across much of the rest of Oklahoma was extensive and devastating. Besides tornadoes, parts of Oklahoma was getting pelted with baseball-sized hail, and we were all thankful that we were safe in sound in Miami.

I crawled into bed early to try to sleep off a migraine that had started earlier in the day. I think it was the lack of sleep the night before that probably caused it and figured all I needed was a good night’s rest. Turns out I was right. :)

Anyway, that’s pretty much the highlights of our first day; however, Dad remembers things a bit differently. :)

This is how Dad would sum up Day One: “Can we stop to pee?” “I need to pee, please.” “Time for a potty break.” “Uh…my bladder’s not gonna make it ’till the next rest area.” “Can we please stop to pee, pretty please with strawberries and whipped cream on top!” :) Hahahahahahaha!!!!! Isn’t it amazing just how often me and mom gotta go!!! :) We’re like two peas from the same pod. No pun intended. haha! Here we are at a rest area in Indiana.

And here’s Mom at another rest area

while Dad waits patiently for us.

One thing’s for sure, Dad’s version is certainly accurate!!! :)

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  • Pat Smith

    Mom and daughter look alike. Good that you get along so well.

  • Sheila

    hi Pat, I’m very thankful to have a good relationship with Mom and Dad. That means a lot. :) Thanks for stopping by and visiting. :)

  • Clara Neilsen

    I love this. I love you all.

  • Sheila

    Awwwww…thank you, Clara!! Love you too!!! :)

  • Clara Neilsen

    I thought your feet would not be happy the next day. You were haveing such a good time. I sure wish I had known your mom and dad lived in SF, when were could have spent more time together. Yes way back then.

    • Sheila

      hi Clara, You’re right…I was having a wonderful time dancing, and I seriously wasn’t feeling pain in my feet until toward the end of the night. It’s amazing how all that wine made me feel like I was dancing on air! LOL! :)

      I wish we had known each other too back when my folks lived in SF. :) But ya know, you feel just like family, Clara, and I’m so happy we finally got to meet!! :)

  • Clara Neilsen

    your picture is of Lake Shastena north of Shasta Lake. You all drove right past our place at Shasta.

    • Sheila

      Thanks so much for telling me where I took that photo, Clara! I couldn’t remember for the life of me! How awesome that you have a place at Shasta Lake! It’s so incredibly beautiful there!! :)

  • Clara Neilsen

    Wow this is wonderful. I feel like I got to go on the trip right along with you. lol. Your mom told me how not happy you were in the Buffalow.

  • Sheila

    hi Clara, I’m so glad that as you were reading along and looking at the pictures that you felt like you were right there with us!! :) And yeah…those buffalo…you know…at first I was totally amazed by them, especially the babies, but when it takes you around 3 1/2 hours to go travel 11 miles…well…then it starts getting aggravating.

    We were just all so tired…had been on the road all day. And Kemal had pulled a muscle in his chest and was in a lot of pain. He asked me for pain reliever, and do you believe that neither me or Mom had any?

    We had unloaded most of our stuff at the hotel, and neither one of us had any pain reliever in the car. So he was miserable and having trouble breathing, and I, of course, was worried sick.

    And plus it was scary seeing all those buffalo everywhere in the dark and hearing them grunting and running. And I was worried how long my bladder was gonna hold out.

    So yeah…I definitely got my fill of buffalo! LOL! :)

  • Mom & Dad

    Hey Sheila & Kemal!!

    Y’all did a beautiful job on this journal w/photography of our 2010 vacation & my class reunion, we know you put in a lot of long hours and a lot of prep work on the photography to get this journal on your web site. We’ve been enjoying the trip over and over again, but it’s much more relaxing the second & third time around through this journal!! We had a great time and so glad you were able to go with us, we really had a lot of fun! Thank you so much for all the work you’ve done on this trip…getting all the maps, researching points of interest on the net, navigating & reading all those maps that are too small for me to see, etc, etc. Also, thank you for the beautiful Mother’s Day dinner at Red Lobster…what a nice way to begin our journey!! Looking forward to the next vacation sometime in the future. We love you!! Mom & Dad

  • Sheila

    Hi Mom and Dad, I’m so glad you guys are enjoying the journal!! It’s neat to go through the pictures and remember/re-experience the wonderful scenery and fun times!! :) We had a great time too, and Kemal and I think about the trip pretty much every day. We were talking about that this morning. We especially think about Oregon a lot, particularly Eugene and southern Oregon. And I can almost feel the fresh pine if I close my eyes and try to tune everything out. :)

    Thank you both so much for inviting us on this trip and for all the work you guys did to make it possible, like getting the park passes, figuring out the routes and how much we’d need to travel in a given day to do everything we wanted to do, and for getting the Suburban ready for the trip. And Dad…thanks so much for all your hard work in driving so the rest of us could kick back and relax. :)

    We enjoyed taking pictures, and working on them when we came home was another way for us to re-experience our journey. I just wish I could re-create and re-experience the sourdough bread! LOL! :) Actually though, we’re ordering some bread from the bakery next week, and I can hardly wait!! :)

    I’m also looking forward to the next vacation, but for now, I’m still enjoying remembering and reliving this one! :) Thanks again for everything!! Love you both!!! sheila

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